Bua's SMR
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At the age of 19, at a college party, I kissed a 21 yr old. Jamaican male while I was intoxicated. Later we started seeing each other and I found out he had a girlfriend. So, I decided not to see him anymore. He told he would break up with his girlfriend of four years. I refused because in my mind I believed that if he cheated on his girlfriend he would do the same with me. I lost touch with him for maybe 1-1 1/2 years when he showed up at my door. We went out to eat and discussed our past, as well as the present.
He disclosed to me that he had a NDE, where he saw us in our past lives.
He said that we belonged together. When he disclosed this information, I felt overwhelmed and found it difficult to believe. I had a NDE myself around the age of 10, so I believed his experience. However, not ready to hear such a story. More than anything, I fought it. As friends, he always reassured me that he will always be there for me. He said, "One day, you will come home." I thought he was crazy and really puzzled at his confidence. Though we didn't stay in touch the whole time due to my serious relationships, once a year, he would call or we would go out to eat. He would tell me that he loved me and that he is waiting for me to come home, yet knowing I am not ready. This went on for 9 years and the whole time, I was afraid. Recently, I ended a 2 year relationship. The instance I was thinking about him, his best-friend called me. I answered the phone, instead to hear his voice on the other end. I felt overwhelmed, feeling as if he just read my mind. He came over and we went out to eat the very same night. I told him that I wasn't looking for any relationship at the moment.
I wanted to do a one year spiritual retreat - making it the year of my freedom. He respected that and I asked that if he wanted to hang out that it would be great because all I am in need of is a friend. He agreed and we started hanging out more often. More than we ever did in the past nine years. I met him for lunch on a Monday for one hour. The weirdest feeling occurred within me. As I left him, I felt intoxicated, drunk, and high with this blissful feeling. I yearned for his presence. I became really confused because I haven't been intimate at all with him. The feeling puzzled me greatly. It caught me off guard because I did not expect this to happen. The next day we hung out, he told me to touch his face. I did and he asked me, "Does it feel wrong?" I didn't really know what to say. I was still scared, holding back it seemed. After he left, I started feeling the same blissful experience all over again. Then a vision flashed while I was feeling this tremendously overwhelming feeling. I saw two specks of light in this deep space, understanding those lights to be two souls searching for each other through space and time. After I had my vision, I broke down and cried because all types of realizations flooded my head. I realized many things I couldn't deny at that very moment. This whole time, I was searching for my mate unconsciously. One mate and even asked nature to bring him to me. Everything he said to me in the past came back to my mind.
"When are you coming home to me?" I love you more than I have ever loved anyone else? etc. He was my soulmate and I didn't even know it - right
underneath my nose and even he knew it. Then I remembered a poetry I
wrote in 2004. The poetry is entitled "My Lover Must Exist"
Here is the Poem: "My Lover Must Exist"
My Lover Must Exist
Even though I feel my standards are so extreme There is only one true man for me Out there, somewhere
Therefore, if you are my true love.....
I have asked the sky
With its shifting clouds to find you
I have asked the gentle breezes to direct you And the earth to guide you
I imagine you to be tall and handsome
Gorgeous smile adorned with beautiful white teeth Your body of chiseled artwork Covered with taut, dark skin
Honesty and faithfulness are you crown my king Followed by loyalty and sincerity You will be envied for you goodness and kindness Strongly apparent in your being Also strength and high intelligence
This is the companion I desire
He will set my heart on fire
Never feeling tired
We are completely one
One in mind and spirit
Any life events or people in our life
We will endure
A mutual respect, love, and honor
As one, we will conquer
But then, am I in reality?
Could there be such a man??
Especially a man with all these great qualities?
Or am I dreaming?
You see my lover must exist
Even though I feel my standard are so extreme There is only one true man for me Out there somewhere.......
If I am here, he must exist!!
This man fits a lot of this description, in fact the closest as long as I have come to know him. It seemed that I was the one who wasn't ready for him until now. We are dating seriously and when my one year spiritual retreat is up, I know and accept that we will be together. If I understand twin flame correctly, does that make him my twin flame?? Additionally, according to our tree of life (kabalistic tree & astrology) Our soul triad are mirror images of each other. We are taking it slowly since I am trying to be celebate for one year and it has only been 3 months. I can only imagine what this relationship will be when it becomes full blown. It amazing that he is from Jamaica - one end of the world and I am from Fiji - the other end of the world and we find each in a little town in the U.S.
Then I wrote a poetry after I had my vision entitled "Is that you?"
Is that really you?
My love, my king, my warrior
In front of me
For years I have longed for you
Dreamt of you
Imagined you
Is that really you?
My love, my king, my warrior
Face to face
Feeling the softness of your skin against my hand Could it be true?
For years I have searched for you
Wondering
Reaching
Asking where you are
Are you really here?
I am afraid
For I need to know it is you
Though nature points me to you
It is too good to be true
As your presence leaves
I feel intoxicated
Drunk
Yearning for you
What has come over me?
Thoughts swimming
Spirit refreshed
Your energy penetrating
Overwhelming
My ego questions you
Is that really you?
My love, my warrior, my king
If it is you, then
Set me free my love
Unchain my spirit
Open my mind
Liberate my heart
Only you are capable
My love, my warrior, my king
I want to surrender
Succumb
Only to you
Is that really you?
My love, my king, my warrior