Relationships - NDE Accounts |
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URL of Account |
Account Title |
Relevant Quote from Account |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1sk_w_nde.html |
S.K. W's NDE 4/19/02 |
I am more compassionate, forgiving and nonjudgmental. I seem to show people how to let go of their fears and self-esteem issues and LIVE. Many people look to me as a role model. I make friends everywhere I go, I'm no longer shy or full of self-condemnation, which has resulted in a large, loving family of friends. |
https://www.nderf.org/nancy_p's_nde.htm |
Nancy P's NDE. |
I want the world to be better place , have hard time establishing close relationships, spend more time researching paranormal looking for more answers to what I should do about psychic abilities, use them or ignore them |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1bob_a_nde.html |
Bob A's NDE. |
The last frame was a shot of seeing my wife with my two children, 2 and 4 years old. After the life review, I heard my grandmother saying prayers over me, so I also said my prayers, 'Dear lord Jesus if you let me raise my kids I will work for you the rest of my life, in your son's name Jesus Christ amen.' |
https://www.nderf.org/joann_m's_nde.htm |
JoAnn M's NDE. |
I'm a lot more tolerant of differences I encounter with people. I'm also more selective. I tend to feel a purpose sometimes when I meet people and know to hang in there with them cause there's a lesson. If something isn't working I seem to be able to identify that and move on. My daily life is more meditative, more reflective, more time talking to God, more spiritual. I feel more connected to all kinds of things. |
https://www.nderf.org/arthur_b's_nde.htm |
Arthur B's NDE. |
I try and be more understanding of others. I let a lot of little things go. I am more calm. I am content with a simple life style. |
https://www.nderf.org/mani_o's_nde.htm |
Mani O's NDE |
i'm more edgy about things and very uncertain of the things and people around me. |
https://www.nderf.org/mary_anne_f's_nde.htm |
Mary Ann F's NDE. |
...we must learn to forgive each other. |
https://www.nderf.org/robert_c'snde.htm |
Robert C's NDE. |
This reinforced the need to share and heal and give whatever it is that I was given to hose in need. I have had various successes over the years helping people that were sick without saying "I'm going to help you now!" |
https://www.nderf.org/corina's_nde.htm |
Corina's NDE. |
I know God wants me do do something, but I wish that I was sure of what that is. I would be comfortable , counseling, writing (if I was better at it), doing workshops of some kind, etc but would be nice to have the gift of healing in some way. I would like to make a BIG difference in the world before I go again. I know that this may sound silly to some people, but believe me, this is from my heart and soul. What a wonderful feeling! |
https://www.nderf.org/kathaleen's_nde.htm |
Kathaleen's NDE |
suffice it to say there is a heaven. this is a place of learning for where we are to spend eternity, we are to bring as many people back as possible and the kindness or evil we do to each other causes peoples lives to be forever changed. we affect possible generations to come. even a harsh word could cause a person on the edge to turn away from god, so live it right folks and just give love and understanding if you can't do any thing else! i'm no god or angel just someone who knows for a fact there is another place and what you do here you take with you, good and bad. it's all about who you helped get through, over, around and eventually back home. its all about the love we get and give |
https://www.nderf.org/sybil_s's_nde.htm |
Sybil S's NDE |
I try to be a better person. |
https://www.nderf.org/karen_d's_nde.htm |
Karen D's NDE. |
...some times I feel more patient with human beings & in some ways feel very impatient . |
https://www.nderf.org/peter_r's_nde.htm |
Peter R's NDE |
The Spirit only wanted to know how well I loved myself, because that plays a major part in how well I love others. |
https://www.nderf.org/ashley_p's_nde.htm |
Ashley P's NDE |
How has the experience affected your relationships? Daily life? Religious practices? Career choices? A depressing outlook of mans greed, destruction, and how he thinks he has the right to take another's life, he knows not where he came from, he knows not where he will go on this ball traveling at approximately 65000 mph in complete infinity. I and all here in this dimension have a right to be here and travel were they please in peace. |
https://www.nderf.org/jody_r's_nde.htm |
Jody R's NDE 3/19/03 I |
I want to tell the world that it is really there and that I was gone for two days and I flew and saw angels and that it is real but some people just smile at me like this old woman has lost her mind. But I'm here to tell you I was there and it was real. |
https://www.nderf.org/deborah_le's_nde.htm |
Deborah Le's NDE |
I think of people I feel connected to in life are connected forever. not just yuour family, but i feel that the life we choose here, is with different family member from the bigger family we have. i can't explain it, but i think my family is my family and it is really much bigger family and while we don't know them as family while we are here, when we are there we remember them and maybe choose to spend some time on earth with them another time. i don't know how to explain it. |
https://www.nderf.org/jim_c's_nde.htm |
Jim C's NDE |
I learned that we are put here to experience loving other people. Everything else is irrelevant. Not meant in a nasty way, but it felt like we are pools of like and are given the gift of a human body to love another being. |
https://www.nderf.org/tina_s's_nde.htm |
Tina S's NDE |
much more relaxed in judging people & situations. Have a need to reasure dying people that it will be ok. Knowledge that prayer works. |
https://www.nderf.org/mosher_c's.htm |
Mosher C's NDE |
My belief in humanity was much stronger |
https://www.nderf.org/megan_m's_nde.htm |
Megan M's NDE |
I do think now that when I am critical of others I immediately look at my own shortcomings and try to be more tolerant and accepting. |
https://www.nderf.org/archives_1998_2001.htm |
Dr. George Rodonaia's NDE |
Anyone who has had such an experience of God, who has felt such a profound sense of connection with the reality, knows that there is only one truly significant work to do in life and that is love; to love nature, to love people, to love animals, to love creation itself, just because it is. To serve God's creation with a warm and loving hand of generosity and compassion ' that is the only meaningful existence. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1twenty_years_later.html |
Twenty Years Later |
(Before NDE:) I had many broken relationships with family members and one time friends. (Now:)I gain a great deal of pleasure from my many good friends and a wonderful relationship with my parents. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1one_soldier_nde.html |
One Soldier's NDE |
Weeks later I was shipped home and began to study to become a teacher. Since my Vietnam experience, I had felt a compelling protective need toward women and children. I even help out by volunteering to build shelters for abused and displaced women and their children. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1mary_nde.html |
Mary's NDE |
He showed me a beautiful shiny bubble which floated next to me. In it I saw a tiny baby nursing at a breast. The baby became a toddler and begun walking toward me still inside the bubble. Then the imagine of a young boy turned into a teenager and he continued to age until he was a full grown man. Who is that? I asked. Your son Michael, was the reply. I recall feeling very relieved that I hadn't destroyed his chance at life. A flood of fearful thoughts crowded into my mind. I wasn't even married and could barely support myself, how could I raise a son? Could he ever forget or forgive me for trying to abort him at four months into life? How could I ever do this alone without help? I saw a flash of myself with a man I knew to be my future husband and he was holding the 2 year old boy I saw in the picture. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1diane_nde2.html |
Diane's NDE |
And the biggest joke on us all is that there is no race, color or creed to our existence after life here. We are all made in the image and likeness of our Creator. We are all beings of solid light with forms, with unique, individual identities. And as infinite as fingerprints, we are equally infinite. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1suicide_nde.html |
Suicide's NDE |
Since my experience, I have found that I no longer fear death, that I have a much more spiritual outlook and I take my responsibility of raising my children very seriously now. I am there for them and I am proud to announce that their lives are coming along much better now that I have become the father I should have always been and I have met and married a beautiful women who is beautiful on the inside and who is giving me strength and courage to get through all of life's trials and tribulations. I will never forget my experience on the edge of Hell and what it has taught me. The negative Near Death Experience is not negative when good comes out of it. I am now a pastoral counselor and do some bookkeeping for small businesses on the side. My children are on their own and have happy, busy, productive lives. I feel at peace. |
https://www.nderf.org/sherry_g's_nde.htm |
Sherry G's NDE. |
We are not here to kill each other. We are here to help each other rise to the higher level of love. |
https://www.nderf.org/diane_g's_nde.htm |
Diane G's NDE |
My focus became helping others rather than getting more for myself. I became very non-materialistic. Life's little problems don't bother me anymore, I just go with the flow. |
https://www.nderf.org/waylan's_nde.htm |
Waylan's NDE |
How has the experience affected your relationships? Daily life? Religious practices? Career choices? Those that I love, I love stronger. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1brad_k_nde.html |
Brad K's NDE. |
I see the wisdom of Buddha, and Jesus, and Gandhi, and others in their application of love to their life situations. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1karen_s_nde.html |
Karen S's NDE |
In a fit of fear and panic I began crying. No, I couldn't be dead. What would happen to my son? He was the most beautiful boy, so happy, but with a touch of sadness that seemed to pierce his soul. This was his lesson to tackle. He knew coming into this life the main lessons he was to learn. It was meant to be. I saw a new mom for Jake when he was about 7 or 8. A beautiful woman, kind hearted who definitely cared for Jake, and treated him well, but she was to have her own child with my widowed husband and the love she showed for her own child was different and unequal to the love she showed for my child - her stepchild. This isn't what I dreamed for Jake. This couldn't be. I was happy for my husband. He was okay. He was happy. My son was a different story. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1jean_nde.html |
Jean's NDE |
I "knew" that we are all connected with each other - like mountain climbers with ropes around their middles. When one of us falls, we pull the others down. When we climb up, we help others up. We're all in this together. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1d_nde.html |
D's NDE. 5/11/99 |
The promise I was given during both those NDE's was that my friend would be returned to life again. He was re-born in a new body. I have been waiting 21 years for him to grow up. I am supposed to extend my hand in friendship again. The bond that existed between us can no be broken by life, death, time, space, or matter. It was a bond within our hearts. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1rachel_probable_nde.html |
Rachel's NDE |
I also felt an abundance of love & compassion 4 my fellowman... |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1sammy_nde.html |
Sammy's NDE. |
There is a master plan and each and every one of us has a part in it. I am certain that each part of that plan is just as important as the next. Belief that position and status make your roll more important than the lady who takes your money at the convenience store is nothing but egotistical nonsense. I know, I used to think that way too. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1lisa_m_nde.html |
Lisa M's NDE. |
My personal purpose was to learn about love and all the ways to express it on earth, and to help other people in any way I could. In a way I believe it is the true life purpose of all, especially learning about love and expressing love. Only love is real. When everything else is gone, only love will remain. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1india_physician_nde.html |
India Physician's NDE. |
I underwent a positive personality change. All my arrogance vanished. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1august_probable_nde.html |
August's NDE. |
I have a greater awareness of the importance of family and friends, because through altruistic endeavors our souls will evolve. It is through our own evolution, or rites of passage, that we help others to evolve. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1barbara_nde.html |
Barbara's NDE. |
WHEN I RETURNED TO WORK, IT ALWAYS SEEMED THAT MY PATIENTS SEEMED IMPROVED WHILE I WAS THERE!!!??? DOES THIS SOUND CRAZY?! HONESTLY, I WOULD BEGIN TO "TEST" IT---AFTER I NOTICED THIS HAPPENING. I WOULD BE ASSIGNED A LOT TO I.C.U., AND IT SEEMED EVEN THE WORST PATIENTS HAD LESS PAIN,-OR RESTED BETTER ETC. EVEN SOME OF MY WORKING FRIENDS WOULD COMMENT ON THIS--AND I WOULD JOKINGLY SAY, "OH, IT'S MY MAGICAL TOUCH"__!! |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1derry_nde.html |
Derry's NDE. |
Jesus is who he says he is, he is our brother, and we knew him well as a friendly brother in the spirit world. This knowledge, this belief, affects every facet of my life, and my desire to communicate this to others. I believe, this is why I came back to live more life to relate this to all who will listen. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1ellen_nde.html |
Ellen's NDE. |
I changed my life tremendously as I became keenly aware of the presence/existence of God, and my accountability with him is very clear! |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1lisa_b_nde.html |
57. S's NDE. |
I notice people. I help whenever I can. Even if it just means to tell a stranger they look nice. I am much more understanding in relationships- I know that we all have these missions and we all struggle so I can let go of others' hurtful actions toward me easier since I know they have just not connected to the love and are "lost" and are acting out of what is left which is fear. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1john_f_nde.html |
61. John F's NDE. |
On our way back to earth we stopped for a talk. One guardian angel told me that some day I would meet a lady and she would become my very close friend. I was told that I would not meet her now as she was still a very young girl. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1valerie_nde.html |
Valerie's NDE. |
BUT THE MOST I HAVE EXPERIENCED IS THE ABILITY TO LET LOVE FLOW THROUGH ME TOWARD OTHERS....TOTAL UNCONDITIONAL LOVE ..TOWARD ALL OTHERS. Love for all others, fear and respect for GOD. There are many feelings and emotions that I receive now about others , but the most overwhelming thing is COMPASSION. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1linda_b_nde.html |
Linda B's NDE. |
Although extremely reclusive, because of the sensitivity I now have, I am learning to reconnect. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1duane_nde.html |
Duane's NDE. |
I pray that we might thank him for our very existence here and treat one another and his creations with the respect and kindness due them. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1jerry_b_nde.html |
Jerry B's NDE. |
This has completely change my outlook on life. I take life one day at a time and live it as if it is my last day. It has softened my heart and I try to help others instead of thinking about my self. I have just finished teaching 33 young people from 13 years of age to 19 in vacation bible school ,sing in the church choir . |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1joanna_nde.html |
Joanna's NDE. |
My daughter is the reason I have not fallen apart on this matter. She is my walking peace of heaven. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1gina_nde.html |
Gina's NDE. |
I believe that there is good in everyone. I have worked in the helping fields and have been given the gift of being able to get along well with almost all people. I have learned from almost everyone I have met - mind you, both good and bad stuff - i.e. I don't want to be angry like this person when I reach her age. I have more compassion for people and I try not to be judgmental |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1david_o_nde.html |
David O's NDE. |
I made the decision. It was the most difficult decision I have ever made. It was difficult until I learned the value of being of service to others. It was tough to swallow my ego and make a decision to help others. I have a real hard time with negativity, which does not help when I am with people who choose to be negative. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1evelyn_nde.html |
Evelyn's NDE. |
Sometimes I could see that a person is very sick, by their strange glow. Could freeze and strange weakness in the whole body when a family member or a close friend is about to die. Control of Anger or Hate. My hatred on people causes them to get sick and some dies. Or become unfortunate. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1debra_nde.html |
Debra's NDE. |
Through the years and continued study, I have made many changes in all the above. And I can see that as time continues to pass more and more changes will continue in order for me to grow spiritually and to help others to find their ways back to or on their own spiritual path. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1anne_nde.html |
Anne's NDE. |
I learned that we must love above all things in this life. And our actions are accountable by our minute to minute actions and responses to one another and that our lives are so very interdependent upon one another and one life is very important in the cycle of life. I learned that Suicide is the unpardonable sin against humanity for life is so very reverent and should not be taken for granted. Suffering is needed for higher attainment, and that above all things we are here on earth to love and be loved. I learned that a simple smile, a kind word or acknowledgement can change the course of the life of a person. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1larry_nde.html |
Larry's NDE. |
That when I get back to wherever I'm going, I'm going to take life more serious. In other words, don't wake up in the morning and see a bird and take that poor little bird for granted. Before, when people would talk to me I would say, 'Yeah, okay'' But now when people talk to me, I listen to every word they say. I have more compassion for people. I don't take things for granted any more. This will sound like I'm contradicting myself. I used to hear what I wanted to hear. But now I listen to everything you say. And I don't look at a bird as a bird, I look at a bird as a human. But. Everything I see here now is not real any more. Nothing I see is really real. What I saw over there was real. This (life) is like an imitation, because I saw the 'real McCoy.' I do take things more seriously and listen more, but I don't take it for real. It's not as real as what I saw. But I still listen and watch the waitresses pour my coffee but it's not real. Every time I pick up a magazine or watch TV, I know it's material things, but it's not real. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1bill_v_nde.html |
Bill V's NDE. |
Life is for living, humankind is the only species that feels god-like because of total misconceptions about Illusionary dominion in regards to our place in scheme of things. Our laws are not coinciding with natural laws that we can't even begin to understand, and besides that, the unknown is not frightening, it's a wonderful mystery that eventually we all will understand and be a part of. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1gail_t_nde.html |
Gail T's NDE |
We are all a part of God, like a cell in our bloodstream). Our connection to each other and our only way to Return to the ONE is Love. It is the Universal Protocol for communication. Without LOVE, we cannot communicate with each other, much less with GOD. |
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1analisa_d_nde.html |
Analisa D's NDE |
I
know one thing I need to work on is accepting people for where they are,
since I have an uncanny ability now to get directly to the heart of any
unresolved emotional issues and try to get them to work on them whether
they are ready to or not. But if I feel that if I can help just one
person to realize how wonderful and loved they truly are, then my life
will be worth it. I am intensely grateful to God for letting me glimpse
the afterlife and to know that we are all here on a mission, each and
everyone of us. My daily life has also changed. I try to enjoy the
little things in life--I listen to animals and plants and rocks, as well
as try to do nice things for people and myself every day. Once i started
working on and resolving my past history of abuse, the feeling in my
heart that I had when I died the first time has come back (although it
is not present all the time---but when it is there everything is
heightened--I can perceive things that ordinarily would not be
perceived. It is as though God's love is coursing through me and I have
the ability to give so much love to people--it is wonderful!
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